Writing

Essays on the medicine hidden in the stories we're told to dismiss: romance novels read for what they're actually doing, astrology read for what it's asking, and the liminal ground between what was and what's becoming.

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The Liminal

People arrive at a crossing in all kinds of ways. Sometimes we choose it, sometimes it chooses us, and sometimes the life we were living quietly stops fitting. What these crossings share isn't difficulty. It's that the ground is unfamiliar, and our usual ways of getting our bearings stop working.

Sent from somewhere in England, in the middle of my own crossing, this is a letter about that terrain and the stories that have always helped us find our way through it. It's also an invitation: this December, I'm bringing back The Liminal, a three-part series for anyone standing at a threshold of their own.

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The Mafioso at the Threshold

Our internal resistance studied at the university of You—weaponizing your own values to keep you from changes that part of you knows are inevitable. The exhausting truth: it takes more energy to refuse transformation than to surrender to it.

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